I have this friend of mine for about the past year who I go back and forth on. In the beginning months we had some good times together but something happened and I don't know what that made me change my feelings towards her at some point.
She's the only friend of mine here in Florida that I didn't tell about the weight loss surgery prior to it. But I did tell her about a week after it. I didn't tell her before because I couldn't imagine that she would be happy for me. I figured she would see it as a competition since she is also overweight. I've got about 80 pounds on her so I don't really get the mindset but whatever...anywhoozle I saw her yesterday. It's the second time I've seen her since the surgery. We spent several hours together and I've lost a total of 45 pounds since my heaviest. I know it shows. But did she say anything to me about it? No....not until I was getting out of her car at my apt...she said "your shirt is loose". My response "yes it is". Why'd she have to say something negative to me? Couldn't she ask about the number of pounds or say it shows in my clothes or my face or something not quite as pick-aparty as what she did. I don't get it. Time for a little distance I think.
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